The book of Luke tells the story of the birth of John the Baptist, and the birth of Jesus. Many of us read that story at Christmas and marvel and celebrate. Within the story of the birth of John is the reaction of his father Zechariah. In Luke 1:11 it says that Zechariah saw a vision that he was to have a son in his old age and he would called John. No sooner had he saw the vision than he began to question the angel who had visited him. How? Why? What? He was full of questions and doubts. The story goes onto to say that he was struck mute until the birth of John, at which time he was able to speak, and was full of praise and good things to say.
So often we forget that our words are a gift, or if you let it be, a curse. When faced with opportunities and interactions this Christmas will your words bring doubt, confusion, and pain? Or will you be intentional, and make sure your words are a gift?
When I read the story of the birth of John the Baptist I wonder what lessons God was trying to teach us in silencing the doubts and fears of Zechariah. Would his words have been too depressing and discouraging for his wife Elizabeth? Would his words have been poisonous and fearful, creating an atmosphere that would have made the house a tough place for a woman to go through labor?
Whatever the reason, clearly we know that sometimes it’s just better to keep quiet than to add doubt, discouragement and fear to someone’s life. Instead, make your words like a wonderfully wrapped gift. A compliment or encouragement, even a lesson, wrapped in authenticity and kindness.
How much better would Christmas be if that were the case for all of us?
David Curry
