Everyone has talents, personality, experience that they bring to every encounter they have with others. Being yourself, your 100% authentic self, is often what makes people appreciate their interaction with you.
If you’ve ever had an interaction with someone who was withholding, timid, self-conscious and slow to speak their mind you know how frustrating it can be. Conversely, any conversation with someone who is comfortable with themselves, lively with their interest in the world, and authentic is a pleasure.
Sadly, these kinds of reactions are all too rare. In fact, you’ll be disappointed if you spend your time waiting for others to bring their best self to any interaction.
That’s not to say this lesson needs to be lost. It should serve as a reminder to you and me to always bring your best self to any interaction, whether that is a meeting, one on one conversation, or listening to your kids at the dinner table. Focus is a great gift that you give to others, and they sense when you are withholding it. Be Authentic, Be engaging, Be Focused, and you’ll find every conversation takes on extra enjoyment.
DC
