A big part of being content and happy, whether at work or in life, is knowing the things you can’t control, and trying to let those things take care of themselves, and pouring yourself into the things you can control
Turns out there is a lot you can control, but not nearly as much as you think.
You can’t control the economy, but you can control you investment in your work
You can’t control others, but you can control how you interact
You can’t control others reaction, but you can control your input.
You can’t control everything you hear, but you can control everything you say.
You can’t control who your family is, but you can pick your friends.
You can’t control if people will appreciate your work, but you can pour your heart into it.
You can’t control everything you see, but you can choose to look for beauty.
You can’t control what others think of you, but you can control your self-talk.
It’s easy to see there’s more to add to this list. Remember to concentrate on the things you can control, and never be passive in those areas. Yet remain open handed towards the things that are outside your reach.
What would you add to this list?
David Curry.